I managed to actually go an entire week where i did not once whinge about our house mate! (ok, not completely whinge free, just house mate whinge free!)
I am so very proud... till this morning...
my poor friend copped my vent. Now i am usually the first person to stop, breathe and try to look from an outside perspective.. Apparently not today! I turned from nice serene mummy into an uber psycho crazy lady in 2.5 seconds! (a new record for me!)
I am the only person who cleans, washes and does any other housework... I dont mind this, its my job... Im Mummy/Fiancee so i suppose its my job... But when i walk into my kitchen and bathroom, both of which were scrubbed clean yesterday and am faced with left over food that isnt ours and hair all mover bath and basin i cracked it...
Yes sir, this calm serene uber mum, cracked it... I was on the phone in a jiffy to whinge! And god it felt good!
So i have come to conclusion, evveryone needs to complain to someone, unfortunately i cant complain to Mr D as he is worried we will have to pack up and move because of the tension and stress... so i made the resolution that i would be t igger person aadn just not complain, just do everything myself nd hope someone realised how worn out and exhaused i was... unfortunately i also underestimated the tunnel vision of males! So there i was, blasting out my frustration to my poor friend on the phone... It wasnt until half way through this god almighty vent that i realised id been complaining for 30 mins! Wow i can talk!
So i am jumping back on the no stress for hubby band wagon again! i should be fine for another week now!
So with the help of a glass of wine this afternoon, ill be chilled, calm and serene again!
Heres hoping!
When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.
Xx
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